I got all up in my dander with his condescending e-mail to me. But I took a breath and I thought. And then I e-mailed a different department to assist with this prick. And I then I asked my co-worker for help. This guy had the balls to e-mail me again, and this time his complaining exposed him for who he truly was: A drama queen. Seeing that second e-mail made me less afraid of him and more ... I'd say done with him. And that's when I remembered that I don't have to engage with this person. In fact, I shouldn't take his bait. It won't solve the problem, and it might get me in trouble. I hate walking away because it always feels to me like I've "lost." But there is so much else I can lose if I trusted my instincts and told this little bitch how I really felt. So I didn't. I pass it along to people who are paid to deal with these people.
Refuse to engage. If that's an option, I should take it more often. Now, what do I have to do if this little bitch comes at me again?
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